September 19, 2006
Baltimore Agunah Making News
After yesterday's piece in the Examiner, the Sun and WJZ have picked up the story of Cynthia Ohana's struggle to obtain a get from her husband Ephraim Ohana.
For more information on what is being done about the agunah problem in general, see the Orthodox Caucus' Prenuptial Agreement page, which includes a sample prenup that obligates a husband to pay a very large sum of money to his wife if he refuses to grant her a get. Many rabbis will now refuse to perform a wedding if a prenup such as this is not signed.
Ironically, those who've seen Lilo and Stitch know that, in Hawaiian, ohana means family (and "family means no one is left behind").
In the Examiner article, Vicki Polin of the Awareness Center claims that a man can re-marry without a get. I don't think that is correct. While technically the marriage would be valid, I don't think there is a mainstream Orthodox rabbi that would allow the marriage of man who has not yet given his wife a get. Hasn't she heard of Rabeinu Gershom's ban on polygomy?
Posted by: David at September 19, 2006 10:37 AMVicki Polin of the Awareness Center is a dangerous person. Please be very careful of what you believe or read of hers. She spreads loshon hara and has her own issues and motives. On my home computer I have a link to a site that exposes her for her true objectives (although most seem noble). I'll post it later.
Posted by: David (different one) at September 19, 2006 11:33 AMThere is another man in the area who refuses to give his wife a get who has remarried. He also, to the best of my knowledge, no longer considers himself orthodox.
Posted by: anonymous at September 19, 2006 1:25 PMI too am wary of Awarness Center but that is a different point. I read about another Baltimore man,Sam Rosenbloom, who won't give a get either. He owns succah.com so the OU has advised people not to buy things from that site. http://www.ou.org/other/5765/seruv.htm
Posted by: Erica at September 19, 2006 9:07 PMDavid#1: You're probably right, most respectable rabbis wouldn't marry a man who was still married. But there are ways to get around this; moving out of town, to Israel, etc. The problem is that there aren't convincing enough metaphysical ramifications for a man ("it's only a de'rabbannan"). For a woman, there are, which makes it more of a personal issue. It's easy for a man to start a new life, and not feel any remorse being with another woman; for a woman, this is impossible.
Posted by: Greg at September 19, 2006 10:05 PMI think there was an error in what was printed and what Vicki Polin said.
Posted by: JewishSurvivors at September 26, 2006 9:13 PMI think if you are a sex offender you should be wary of Vicki Polin and also The Awareness Center.
I think everyone should educate themselves on what The Awareness Center is really about. Stop buying into the rumors read up and decide for yourself.
www.theawarenesscenter.org